Cartoon by Bill Watterson.
Our comic strip hero Calvin may not be the most studious boy of his time, and his poor time management skills leave a lot to be desired, but the basic message presented should ring true to a lot of us. We've all been there before; we have a huge project or assignment hanging over our heads, and whether we've been too busy to touch it or have simply procrastinated, we find ourselves in a pickle.
Now I want you to think back to all those times you felt overwhelmed and tell me one thing: when was the last time you simply didn't get it done? Was it ever so bad that you actually couldn't complete a project or submit a paper? Maybe it was late, and maybe it wasn't high quality, but I'd wager that you've almost always found a way to get it done. And if you couldn't get that book report done to the quality you wanted in 10th grade, how has that impacted your life? Is everything ruined?
My guess is it stopped mattering within a couple months. Maybe you feel that the stakes are much higher in college, and every point is essential for achieving your dreams, but does that mean you should be stressed out over question number 6 on your physics exam? Will that problem make or break your future?
My point is not that we should blow off our assignments like Calvin and forget our responsibilities because they don't actually matter; my point is that "worrying" about them is utterly useless. When has worrying about something ever helped the outcome? We should try our best to get the job done, maintain a positive attitude about it, and let go of the anxiety! Have some faith in your ability, enjoy the present, and be an encouragement to others. Planning out your schedule and making a task list is a great idea, but allowing your workload to consume your thoughts and defeat your spirit just isn't worth it. You're a healthy, free, young individual with a bright future; you owe it to yourself for more.
So as THON approaches this weekend, and I try to deal with an insane to-do list (including a deliberation!) I'm going to stay positive and have some fun! By allotting myself enough time to complete the things I know I have to get done, I can trust myself and enjoy an amazing THON weekend. I hope you do too!
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I remember you saying something to this extent to me in class earlier this week and I definitely agree! And the line about stressing over #6 on a physics exam gave me flashbacks to my physics exam last night. It's so easy to get caught up in the frenzy of life and it's always good to remember not to stress too much because everything will work out. Good luck with getting everything done this weekend and have lots of fun at THON!
ReplyDeleteI remember you saying something to this extent to me in class earlier this week and I definitely agree! And the line about stressing over #6 on a physics exam gave me flashbacks to my physics exam last night. It's so easy to get caught up in the frenzy of life and it's always good to remember not to stress too much because everything will work out. Good luck with getting everything done this weekend and have lots of fun at THON!
ReplyDeleteThe intro pretty much narrated my life last night. Gosh it is funny how things always get done (especially my blog posted at 8 am...). I guess that's the power of determination.
ReplyDeleteI don't remember when, but at some point in time I stopped stressing over things. And it is true, it helps a lot. Have fun at THON!
This was a very thought provoking post and as a college student I can definitely relate. I have been stressed out this past week due to 2 upcoming tests in the near future. Finding the time to study for these tests seems near impossible. However, as you stated in the post, I will most likely find the time. I liked the reality in this post. You had a very authentic and relate able voice behind your thoughts that made the message easy to connect to.
ReplyDeleteI definitely relate to this post. It's crazy how, no matter how intense your schedule is and how many assignments you have, everything ALWAYS gets done. It's nice to keep this in mind, especially during weeks like this. It makes it so much easier to let go and enjoy amazing events like THON.
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